Anna needed a new swimsuit for our upcoming trip to
Disneyland, so Friday morning we set off to find one. I was feeling good about myself because I had my 3 kids and myself ready by 9:30 am (Victory #1) and we headed to Walmart. After returning something I had mistakenly bought for the nursery kids (Victory #2), we went to look at swimsuits. She didn't like any of the ones that fit her, so we left WITHOUT buying anything. (Victory #3).Next stop, Old Navy. Not only were the swimsuits there cheaper and cuter than at Walmart (Victory #4), but they had Anna's size and flip flops for both girls. (Victory #5, and if you know Anna, finding the flip flops is a major life event). I also picked up some cute winter shirts for next year off the clearance rack. Left the store only spending $30. (Victory #6, especially since I found a pair of jeans for me for only $6, but opted not to buy them because I really have no idea what size I wear post-baby).
The trouble all started in the parking lot. We ran into a friend from our old ward and I really enjoyed talking to her, so I let the kids into the van to play while we chatted. Then Eve started to fuss b/c she was getting hungry, so I said goodbye to my friend and headed into the van to take care of Eve. As soon as I got in the van Kate said "I peed my pants." Shoot. The day is no longer looking so victorious. "Where is your pee honey?" I asked.
Of course it was all over the driver's seat. Of course.
The fortunate thing for us all was that I had put an extra outfit for Kate in our stow-n-go, so we got her changed quickly. Then I had to sit in the pee seat while I nursed the baby, all the while thinking "And I thought I was Supermom to get all these things done before noon. How humbled I have become!"
I realize more and more every day how much work goes into being a mother. You've got to be the laundress, the chauffeur, the nurse, the chef, the milk factory, the cuddle when they're sad, the enforcer of time outs, the reminder to get dressed AND brush your teeth every day, the middle of the night helper to the potty, the teacher, the book reader, the social interaction coordinator, etc. And most important, you've got to be the example. Really it didn't impress my kids one bit that we managed all my victories of the morning, but hopefully one day they'll think of me and appreciate that I sure tried hard to be a good example and raise them in the Lord's way. I think the most important victory of the day is when I leave their room at night and hear two little voices say "I love you Mom."